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How do I learn about Money and Relationship?
Money can have an impact on a relationship. It's one of the top ten reasons for any breakup, divorce, or your being together. 
TRANG LE
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Traditionally, women are thought to be the one who needs a roof or need to be protected by men's love and financial stability, while men are thought to provide protection to women or to make them feel secure. However, I don't think that it's still true now. The reason is that women are gaining more financial independence, some of them even have their own careers. 

Every woman has her own standard for choosing a partner. There is a long list of what you expect from your partner, and these are common things: 

- Good looking 

- Family background 

- Educational background 

- Financial stability 

- Good personality 
.... 

The more financially independent I am, the more my relationships all ended over money (not to mention whose fault it is). That's funny, isn't it? 

The financial gap between us caused the pause. It could be ... we come from two different family backgrounds, and maybe I bear more responsibility than they do. One of them left me in financial chaos which was not caused by me. Later on, I understand that they are afraid of resolving the chaos together with me. Sometimes, I couldn't meet their financial expectation, so our relationship came to the end, consequently. They all ended up with choosing someone else who are more financially abundant than I am. They even chose to go with someone that was chosen by their family. Hopefully, they are happy with their choice. 

For me, money is important somehow, but I don't want money to cause tension in relationships. Relationships based on money nay feel transactional and less emotionally charged than love-based relationships. I'd rather choose a man with a smart mind and a good heart than a wealthy man. I believe that being smart and sympathetic will multiply the wealth, and the wealth comes from a strong foundation. I'd rather choose someone who makes his own than who inherits. Emotional stability will lead to financial stability. 

See what I mean? Money is the main reason for breakups or being together. Unmet financial expectations caused a lot of conflict (my case). Also, our different experience and background shape our mindset about money. Both mindsets are correct, and I take it seriously. 
Anyway, I re-invested in myself after every breakup. The upside of a breakup is that such a dramatic change can be a great catalyst for reinventing yourself. I take breakup as an opportunity to level up myself to a higher version. I do have a clearer sight of money and relationship. 


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